I’ve been unable to blog for the last couple of days because of problems with our Ethernet card. I’ll try to catch you up on all events. One nice thing that happened a couple of days ago was a
slightly cool breeze at our house in the evening. It’s very common for us to
come home with sweat literally running down our backs and legs- usually our
scrubs are stuck to our backs and we have to peel our stethescopes off our
necks as soon as we walk in the door. Which is usually followed by guzzling
some water or Fanta, whichever is coldest, right before plopping on the couch
in sheer exhaustion. Then it pretty much
stays hot, albeit less sweltering than the ward, but hot nonetheless, until
night time when we retreat back into our AC room. But that night was different.
It was such a beautiful evening we decided to sit outside and talk for a while.
It felt incredibly nice to feel an actual breeze!
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Our front yard view |
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Spraying on insect repellent in preparation to sit outside |
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My first trip to the stoop |
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Jonathan's "spot" |
The 16th was Bertina’s birthday. One thing I love
about Ghana is how much of an effort people make to try and make sure you are
comfortable and happy. Hamza’s aunt Mama Merci, and her niece Victoria, came
over, pots and vegetables in hand, and cooked an entire birthday dinner for us.
Not only would they not accept money for the groceries, they cleaned the entire
kitchen, including dishes, and swept the whole house down and wouldn’t allow us
to lift a finger! Hamza also brought over his speakers and cds and Aziz hooked
it all up to the tv, and we had a fun dance party after dinner. It was just a
few people- Bertina, Jonathan, Hamza, Aziz, Mama Merci, Victoria, little Edna,
and me. But it was such a good time. Bertina said (outside of her residual
abdominal pain from the day before) it was the best birthday she’s had. Here
are some pictures and video below. And for those of you who are into music, you
might enjoy learning the Azonto- the latest Ghanian dance. The video was cool (below).
And Edna was by far the best dancer at the whole party.
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Kele-wele with special garlic and ginger |
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Salad |
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Jollof |
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Boiled eggs with spicy red curry |
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Jonathan taking lessons from Edna |
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Mama Merci, Hamza, and Me |
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Edna works alone
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Happy Birthday Bertina!!
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Another hot day |
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Taking a break to use the internet in the hot spot of the hospital |
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Lunch with my Mommy |
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Yeshima, the strongest resident they have and one of the nicest guys you'll ever meet |
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Snake bite- came right into the child's home and bit him |
These children are so non-demanding. I remember yesterday on
rounds, one of the rooms on the ward was so crowded that there were patients
sprawled out on mats on the floor. Of course the electricity decided to take a
hike for a few hours. There we were in the least ventilated room of the
hospital; it was definitely over 100 in there- flies everywhere, with their
faint but annoying buzz. The room was so humid I thought I was starting to see
fog on people’s glasses. The exact analogy I can think of is a sauna. Yes, it felt
just like a sauna, minus the steam. The heat just envelopes you and you feel
like you better get in front of a window quickly or you will suffocate…
Anyway, so we are
rounding on a patient when this other little boy comes back in, presumably from
the bathroom, about 4 or 5 years old, and he quietly steps out of his worn,
hole-y flip flops and takes his place back on the mat on the floor, flies all
around his face, sweat pouring down his temples, no air in sight that close to
the floor. He was clearly uncomfortable but did not say a word. I picked up his
chart (which was a few pieces of paper haphazardly stapled together) and began to
fan him. It was the only resource I had available to make him less miserable. All
the other parents looked shocked, including his mom, who looked like she’d seen
a ghost. Funny how sometimes the simplest things that we do are the most
appreciated. Even the orderlies
playfully teased me, asking if I go around fanning all the patients in the
hospital. As he finally started to get comfortable and the flies flew away, I saw
him drifting off into a nap…but every few seconds he would open his eyes and
peek to see if I was still there.
Lovely reading about the birthday festivities - how it goes to prove one does not have to have everything under the sun to be happy. Its all in the mind set. It brought tears to my eyes on how these kids have resigned to their living on almost nothing - such a contrast to feelings of entitlement. Good job Nitya with your blog!
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